11/2/16

BYOP and Halloween 2016


The only pics from the school fall festival.  It was a blast and the kids would have stayed forever if they could. 
Avery is a Burks Ambassador so she had to go early to help set up, so she missed out on the photo op.
Then on Saturday we had our second annual BYOP and it was so much fun!









 






Monday was Halloween and Ben was a paleontologist, Sass a vampire, Shea was Ariel and Avery was a french girl.


And Jeff was Shea.
(Or her eye brows at least)




 
We went to Jan and Bob's and ate hot dogs and handed out candy more than actual trick or treating, and it was perfect.
Shea was scared at first, but then started handing out candy and recognizing every costume.  If she got scared, she would cover her ears and then tell me "it's just pretend" and talk herself into it.
I am so so thankful for these neighborhood nights.
I am really trying to create more community with every person around us.
I have made friends with the people in the apartments just around the corner and really have been trying to invite people into our lives that just walk by our house.
I know that not everyone wants to come know us, but I just want everyone to feel welcome here.  And loved.  And I want to learn from everyone around us.  I want to open my circle wider.  Lately, I have been reading a lot about that from Shannan Martin's new book Falling Free and it just was so encouraging to me. 
Having a party is not necessarily helping any one, but you know I love a party.  

HAWAII 6-0; Bringing Sixty Back

My mom told us that what she wanted for her 60th birthday was to go to Hawaii.

And even though it tough for us, we made the trip.
I mean, for her, obviously.


We suffered through the beauty and the fun family time and the gorgeous nature and amazing peaceful free time. 
Because we love and care for her and are willing to do anything for Mom, you know.

 Ben and Jeff got to go deep sea fishing with my dad and it was beautiful.  Ben did get sick, but I still think he would rather be sick while fishing then not sick at home.
 The boys played a little golf.

We found some sea cucumbers.
  And held Presley the whole time.

And played with Kai every second she was awake.






 Kai was so much fun and even and we just had a blast getting everyone together.  It was so incredible.

 


















 Every cousin situation was just the best.  So much stinkin cuteness and love and ridiculousness.

Ben and Jeff went fishing a few times and had the best time of their lives.  They caught the state fish on the first cast and ben was BESIDE HIMSELF.







Presley gave us the biggest grin while we were listening to Adele's "Send my love to your next lover" and it was the best smile ever!


 Getting to celebrate my mom this week with the whole family was truly the best week ever. We gave her six gifts- one for each decade- and each gift corresponded with an attribute that she had. And each kid (or kid in law) presented one of the gifts to her. The one I presented was 'fun' (and that gift was matching tanks with Hawaii 6-0 on them, of course). Fun is one thing about my mom that I value so so much and an attribute that speaks for so much of who she is. She is supportive (sports bras), sweet (m&ms with her face on it), fresh (cordless dyson), always puts her family first (a surprise family photo shoot with a real photographer! No lame Christmas cards this year!), and Godly (prayer journal, just in case anyone was wondering)- just to name a few. But fun is definitely the icing on the cake of all of those. (And an attribute of God that I think so many people forget about or have trouble seeing.) She knows how to celebrate and how to make everyone around her feel loved and special. The best example of this was when Avery mentioned she wanted to zip line a few days into the trip. We hadn't thought of doing that and had no idea how to make that happen. But she immediately did research, looked it up, called and set it up and made sure Avery got to go. It was a little bit tough because Avery was the only kid who could go (because you had to be 70 pounds) and we didn't want to leave anyone out. But mom had watched Avery take care of the babies and wanted to reward her for being such a good oldest cousin. And she absolutely did. It ended up just being mom and Avery and I and we all had the best time being together and getting to have such an exhilarating, awesome and fun experience. In this, and in countless other times through out my life, she has taught me how having and providing and bringing fun can make people feel so special and loved. And that's what this week was- non stop fun with so much overflowing love. 









Cant wait for Hawaii 6-1 ;)

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